The Pig Pen

I'm the last person I thought would ever create a blog. It's my lame attempt to give my family and friends a means of keeping up with my goings on and those of my kids. This way, I can prove I haven't fallen off the earth and that I do think of you all often.. even if I don't show it. Here goes!

Monday, July 31, 2006

Baseball, hotdogs, no apple pie..













but we ate Dome dogs, nachos, M&Ms, candied almonds and had a very fun afternoon at the Metrodome on Sunday. Lyndsey had never been to a pro baseball game, and since there's NOTHING like live sports, I decided she needed to go! Ya know, the roar of the crowd, the camaraderie, the over-priced food and beer. Now that's a great American past time!! The Twins are doing pretty good only being 1.5 games down in the Wildcard standings. I thought for sure they were gonna lose, but came up with 6 runs in the 8th! It was a very exciting!! It was around 100 degrees this weekend so it was nice to find something fun to do indoors. They are going to go back to an outdoor stadium, and I can't imagine sitting out in 100 degrees trying to watch a game. In fact, I probably won't!

Now, I have never seen that stadium as packed as it was yesterday. Getting tickets was near impossible. At the beginning of the season, when things weren't so hot, you could buy a $6 ticket and move down to about 6th row off the field cuz it was so empty. And yes, I did that a few times. Now all those "Fair Weather" fans are showing up by the 10's of thousands and ruining it for everyone!

I have a busy week at school with finals on patients in clinic and 3 lecture exams.Which I'm obviously not cracking on because I'm blogging instead!

Let the good times roll!




Saturday nite Lyndsey, Mark and I went out for the evening. We drove up to Maplewood to the Minnesota Comedy Club. Decided to get out do something other than Karaoke, which oddly, has become quite the comical and favorite thing to do for my group of pals from school. Pretty much everyone else was busy doing something else (Lucky Mark!! LOL), but we had a great time. The stand-ups were funny and a couple of those drinks TOO strong! After we drove back to Eagan, went to a favorite hangout, Fitz's, ate and watched Mark shoot darts and pool. Watched because he's so good that I am WAY CHICKEN to even go there!

Saturday, July 29, 2006

I'm officially .. ALONE!


Doug and the kids have just been dropped off at the airport. Am I excited?? YES! But equally sad. This is the longest I will have been without Becca and Alex in their lives. And Doug's longest stint on his own with the kids. Good luck, man! 13 days of ...uncharted territory for all! I have a lot planned over the next couple weeks, as do they, and I know it will go fast. They'll have a great time in their old stomping grounds in Spokane. Everyone is so excited to see them!! This is a good time for a much needed break as the next couple of weeks in school will be hairy ones and I will be at an elevated stress level. Upon their return, we'll be spending a weekend in the Wisconsin Dells. It's the weekend preceding finals week, but I don't even care. It'll be a good break leading into it.

BTW - Hey, feel free to leave comments! I'm doing these postings for you and I'd like to hear from ya!! You've spent the last year riding my ass for not returning calls/email, now it's my turn!!

Friday, July 28, 2006

Girls Day Out


Today was Rebecca and I's planned trip to Mall of America (MOA). Alex had daycare today and so it was a good time to get out; just us girls. It started out harmless enough, at a toy store, where the above little dog was purchased. We flitted around having smoothies, ooooing and ahhing over this and that, trying on shoes (a joint love) and then.. we happened upon a quaint shop called Libby Lu. This is a little girls' paradise. It ooozes with pink, glitter and all-around girliness. In other words, all things that make me cringe. One of the special things about this store is that it has a little salon. You can choose from 5 different hairstyles, that come with different accessories, they do your makeup and they even have clothes to dress up in. It just so happens, Becca, in her curious ways, notices they do a "Mom & Me" package. And of course, the salon just happens to have an opening in about 20 minutes. And the photos DO NOT EVEN capture the copius amounts of glitter that adorn our hair, face and the 3 foot space all around us!!! Our hair is actually pretty fun, which doesn' t show either. The look upon Rebecca's face during the whole process was priceless! The girls who work the salon portion complimented me on going through this whole process because apparently, most moms don't. Rebecca pipes in and says "Well, that's because those moms aren't cool like my mom". That, right there, made it all worth while. She'll be having her birthday party there in August. :)

"I don't need no one to tell me about Heaven; I look at my daughter, and I believe"

--"Heaven" by Live

Thursday, July 27, 2006

Kick off your weekend with a little Nitrous!!!










Well, as many of you know, Thursdays is the start of my weekend this semester (and next ,too, for that matter). And what better way to end a rough week than by kiting up on some Nitrous?! Glad that zillion dollars in tuition has SOME perks LOL . Nitrous is fun stuff (for me at least)! It's funny how everyone reacts so different. Some of us are floating on very little and others it takes quite a bit more. We are liking this lab much better than local anesthesia. For OBVIOUS reasons. Well that, and we tend to only spend 1.5 hrs (if that) instead of 3 hrs in Pain Mgmt Lab. So the weekend starts a little earlier!

Not really sure what's going on this weekend. Doug and the kids leave Saturday at lunchtime. Still making my 'wanna do' list for the next 2 weeks of kid-free time.

Sunday, July 23, 2006

Traci for President!




of the Tim Mahoney Fan Club!! Minneapolis has a fantastic local music scene. One of my quick favs upon moving here has become The Tim Mahoney Band. In the Highland neighborhood of St. Paul they have an annual arts/food festival called Highlandfest. I have been unable to catch all the other live performances of the band thus far, so last night I took off to the fest and to see the band play. I couldn't have asked for a better first live experience. They played on this make-shift public parks stage in the middle of a baseball pitch behind the neighborhood library. The crowd was very light and friendly. I even made a couple new girlfriends (with whom I'll be going to see Edwin McCain at the Fine Line (local music bar) at the end of the month). Got a couple new CDs, got them autographed by the band, had a photo with Tim (lead vocals) and Chad (bassist), danced, socialized, had a couple drinks at Tiffany's afterwards (with above mentioned new friends) and went home smiling. It was a good time!

Note to J. Marx : Sorry you couldn't make it! I had that pic with Tim and Chad taken just for you! I hope green looks good on you! You missed a great time! Don't worry.. I'm not offended. LOL

If I ran the zoo..







We had a great trip to the zoo! Crowds weren't too bad and the weather was perfect! We spent a lot of time in the Butterfly House. Though Alex was most interested in "helping" a staff member change the filter in the Koi pond. Afterwards, we had a little Wendy's picnic at home on the lawn. After a trying 10 days, in many ways, it was nice to hang out, relax and enjoy the simple things. Which is what life's focus should really be.

Saturday, July 22, 2006

Folks! We have a white belt!



Rebecca had her Kung Fu test this morning. She did awesome! All 12 judges scored her between 8 and 9 out of 10. She was so nervous! Once she got going though, she did very well! Way to go, Becca!

Thursday, July 20, 2006

Fun in the hot, hot sun!




Well... last weekend it did cruise up to 100 degrees! And while the humidity wasn't all bad, it was damn hot! Here are a few photos from the water gun fight Becca and Alex had with their friends, Evelyn and Tyler. Alex likes me to style his hair funny when it's wet :) A little H.M.?? Maybe just a bit!

Prince Charming??


Ok.. maybe not. Or at least I am not yet desperate enough to start kissing frogs! But this cute, little green guy was sitting on my deck rail tonight when I stepped out to enjoy the evening. It was a very nice surprise! How he got up here, I dunno. (And for those of you going "he hopped, DUH!".. that isn't what I mean.) The deck is off the second floor so he must have good stick. Hope he sticks around a while :) I suspect that when my friend, Birdie, reads this, she may boycott my blog all together. She finds them vile. But he's sooooooooooo cuuuuuuuuute! RIBBIT!

Saturday, July 15, 2006

The wild blue yonder...













Michaela left yesterday for Seattle. She will be there about 5 weeks and will return here from North Carolina as she'll be with Daddy et al when they move next month. While there, she and Ray will be attending their final Table Mountain Star Party (an annual star-gazing event in Central Washington), she'll be seeing her best pal from Spokane, Tonya, and of course the big move across country. Will be a busy few weeks for her and we look forward to her updates. We miss her already!! Have fun, Boog!! XOXOXOXOX

Summer is at its half-way mark and we're just now getting our first really hot weather here. Been in the 90s the past few days though the heat index and humidity push up more the 100ish range. Egads!

Here's a few photos from the airport. I always take them of Michaela before she leaves on extended trips as she seems to change so much now in such short periods of time. All the kids seems to grow so fast. I also took a few of the landscaping at the Humphrey Terminal as the blue glass was just stunning. The photos don't do it justice!


"These are the best days of our lives.
The only thing that matters
is just following your heart
and eventually you get it right"
-The Ataris

Thursday, July 13, 2006

The Good, the Bad and the OK




Minneapolis hasn't been as bad as I thought it would be. Though much different than life in the Pacific Northwest. It has taken some adjustments, but I'm getting more use to it.

Things I like:
1. Lots of parks here!
2. Professional sports teams
3. The zoo
4. Museums
5. Great bar scene
6. Thursday is the new Friday here ( in a going out sense)
7. Mall of America (sans kids)
8. Most people are pretty friendly (Eagan is sorta touch and go)
9. Cascade Bay Waterpark
10.Valleyfair (amusement park)
11. Everything I 'need' is in close proximity to my residence
12.Thunderstorms

Things I'm not crazy about:
1. Snow
2. Mosquitos
3. Humidity
4. Crazy drivers (And you guys in WA think the ID drivers are bad!)
5. Self absorbed people
6. Headgames (popular social thread here)
7. Snobbiness of Eagan
8. Flat terrain and no white water rafting
9. The 'no alcohol sales on Sunday' rule
10. The 'no car sales on Sunday' rule (I can't afford one, it's just dumb)
11. Cost of living
12. Lack of drive-thru, corner coffee huts (Walnut Street Perk - I miss u!)



"The fool you take me for, is not the fool you make her out to be"

Kung Fu Shuffle!


One of the new activities that the girls are taking part in is Kung Fu. They both love it! Alex does it from the sidelines as he can't join the school until he is 5. He can't wait! Rebecca will have her first belt test next Saturday, July 22nd. Michaela will have a double belt test next session as she misses next week's test. She leaves for Ray's tomorrow for a 5 week stay.

The 7 and younger kids (Becca's group) had a pre-test today. She scored 9.5 and 9 (out of 10) on her tests. So she should kick butt next week. Michaela was working with one of the 3rd degree black belts (instructor's son) on self-defense. She is pumped cuz she can now break noses :)

-" Doing what you enjoy is always time well spent"

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Hygienists do it twice a day...



Brushing and flossing that is!!

I don't think I'll ever forget my first 7 weeks of hygiene school. Never had I felt so lost or overwhelmed in my whole life. I'm in an accelerated program and they began throwing it at us right away. The first time I looked in my instrument cassette and gazed upon the 14-16 instruments in there (each one for a different area of the mouth or surface of a tooth) my only thought was "Yeah right!" It's amazing how far I've come in those 9 months.

Now I know most of you think that what I've chosen for a career is absolutely DISGUSTING! (And Karin is very verbal about that LOL). I totally love it! I love working with my patients and it's really cool seeing what stuff you pull out of teeth! It's a treasure hunt of sorts.

The program itself is very stressful. Not only because of its accelerated rate, but several of the instructors are very hard to deal with. They get off on making you feel about an inch high and parading around high and mighty. The stuff they cram into us in lecture is mostly useless beyond passing the National Boards Exam (next March). Though I will say I had no idea how much information there was to learn about teeth and the oral cavity in general. If it weren't for a few of our adjunct instructors, it would be damn near intolerable. That and the group of girls (and one guy) that I am with are gems. We all get on quite well and are very supportive of one another. This is good to see as the class that just graduated didn't get along at all. And it's nice to be with a bunch of other people with anal retentive qualities! OH! And our clinic administrator, Mrs. Thompson, is the absolute best. She schedules our appointments and finds us the types of patients we need for requirements. How she keeps that up for 36 girls (and for one semester a year 70+) is beyond me!

I am one of the oldest in the class. Which is fun. The younger girls are very pleasant and I have formed good friendships with a few of them, but get on well with them all. We go out once or twice a month for drinks and dancing to let off some stress. It's a good time. I am not the only one that came from out of state, but I did move the farthest.

We do a lot of volunteer stuff. The one pic above is of my friend, Kim, and me working the Special Smiles Tent at the Special Olympics at the end of June. It was so much fun and the athletes were great! We also do Sealant Saturdays at a state clinic downtown a few times a year. And next week we do Miles of Smiles where low income kids come to our clinic and we provide our services free of charge. That other pic is just one of me in my operatory area.

My favorite class this semester (besides clinic) is Pain Management. We've just finished learning our anesthetic injections for the maxilla and mandible. Great fun! We practiced on eachother. So every week we're getting numbed up. Kinda scary poking needles in a person's mouth the first few times, but then , it was fine. This week we begin working on Nitrous. WOOOOOOO HOOOOO!!! Up until this point if a patient needed local anesthetic the instructors did it. Next semester we get to do it. With supervision of course!

I find the hardest thing is radiographs. They expect them to be textbook perfect. And even my worst rads are way better than some of the ones my patients have brought from private practice. It's kinda scary. I have an issue being consistent. But gets better with time.

I've been in contact with the University of Minnesota already. They have a Dental Hygiene Bachelor's completion program. I believe that I already have most of the liberal arts requirements for this done and the others I could take online. So well worth that. If I can complete that, I would eventually like to be a rep for Proctor & Gamble or Hu-Friedy.

There are those days where that place just gets to ya and you want to walk out and never come back. Luckily, the good days outweigh the bad ones. Cuz usually those bad ones are pretty bad. I know it's just a bunch of hoop jumping and this part is only temporary. It too, shall pass. I don't regret my decision, but I can't say I would exactly recommend this particular program. A common saying we hear from the instructors is "It'll all work out". It's kind of a running joke among me and my classmates. We insert it in conversation often. We are fed that line nearly every time we have a concern. So now it's our pseudo mantra.

I'm not a Dental Hygienist, but I play one on TV....


"Success is measured through personal satisfaction"

Monday, July 10, 2006

Minnesota: Year 1


I find it hard to believe that in just 2.5 weeks we'll have been here a year. Time is a funny thing, I find. We're already halfway through this year, I'm more than halfway through my dental hygiene program (still worry most days about getting 'voted off the island' or failing out) and it's been 12 months since I took that giant leap and moved myself and the kids more than halfway across the U.S.

When I look at the BIG picture, I still feel so far away from the new life I am working on for myself and the kids. Finishing school, getting a real job and hopefully, eventually, buying us a house of our own. But in reality, I know I am blessed in every way. The kids' dads remain very supportive in my new adventures and I can't thank them enough for that. Ray and his family will be moving to North Carolina this summer and Doug is hopefully moving east as well. It would be nice to have us all closer again. The hardest thing about this decision was that it took the kids so far from their other parents.

The kids have all adjusted better than I had ever hoped. They excell in their new environments and have made many new friends. They enjoy many activities and a lot of things that living in a big city affords them. Theatre, zoos, museums etc. I have made new friends as well and am slowly getting more and more settled in Minnesota. We all miss our old home and all the friends we've left behind. And the undying support of my family and friends has been a huge component in all this. I can't thank all of you enough for the calls, the cards and well wishes. It's been a huge pile of changes in the last year...my first year on my own. And while it was quite an adjustment at first, we've all come through fine. Michaela has been a great help (understatement of the year) and I don't think I could do this without her. And all the kids are rather understanding of my time constraints and my stressy mood swings LOL

I just want you all to know, because you were all so scared and freaked out for me, I am just fine. I know I did the right thing and I'm happier than I've been in a very long time. It's a good feeling.

Ok...enough babble. Here's a recent photo!

"Just spread your wings, latch on to the breeze
Just take the leap..and you're free"'
-Carbon Leaf